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Being a Consistently Inconsistent Reader

Being a Consistently Inconsistent Reader

This post from Tumblr perfectly describes my relationship with books.

If you ask me on any given day while I’m going about my business if there is something else I’d rather be doing, reading is going to be high on that list. But if you ask me how often I actually read… well, I’m going to sign deeply and inwardly frown. Because I’m a book worm, but sometimes I’m not.

I love books, but sometimes I go through long droughts of reading. Months go by where I can’t be bothered to pick up a book. Or every book I start to read just doesn’t catch my interest. Or I want to read, but every other aspect of my life feels like a priority over reading.

You see, I am a consistently inconsistent reader.

Every month I make myself a to-be-read pile and psych myself up for reading. Then, without fail, I drop the ball on making time to read, and fill my free time with anything other than a book. And before I know it the month is over, and my TBR pile has remained untouched and started collecting dust.

I wish I was someone who could stick with a reading routine. I enviously scroll through Bookstagram posts from avid readers who devour books by the stack. But even that doesn’t motivate me. This year, I’m trying something new. I’m looking back at my past two years of reading, which have been meticulously tracked on Goodreads, and analyzing what I read, and why I read it.

2018 may have been one of my most consistent, and successful, reading years. I read 26 books, and while my goal was 35, I have to say the majority of the books I read were rather lengthy and one even took me 3 months to read, it wasn’t terribly long at 516 pages… but it was terrible, and those are 3 months of my life I’ll never get back. So I’m happy with 26 books total.

Then enter 2019, where I read 8 books and took a 7-month reading hiatus. And I had started out so strong, with 6 books under my belt by the beginning of April. The interesting part is it wasn’t even a bad read that caused me to not pick up a book again until November. In fact, the last book I read was one of my favorites of the year. What would cause such an aversion to reading?

The most significant factor I found from analyzing my past reading habits, is that my most productive reading is done when everything is right in my life. When I’m in a completely non-stressed, content state of mind is when I can allow myself to enjoy a book. If I’m stressed or depressed or anxious in any way, it’s like my brain cells won’t accept the relief reading can bring.

Now that I know this about myself, I’m hoping I can use it to my benefit, and get myself in the right headspace to be a productive reader. With the state of the world right now, it would be nice to lose myself in a book, but I’ve also decided to go easy on myself. Consuming 60 books in a year isn’t the be all end all. Would it be nice? Sure. But I’m not going to make myself feel guilty over unread books. There are far more important things.

Will 2020 be a consistent year? Well, so far, I’ve not finished a single book, but I do have a list of reads I’d like to get through this year. I’ve also set my bar very low to avoid setting myself up for failure (my Goodreads goal is 20 books). How about you? Are you a consistent reader, or are you a book lover that goes long periods without reading? Let me know!

Also, stick around for a post about being a consistently inconsistent writer, because this post was supposed to come out in January…

❤ Kayti

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Must Do’s on Your Next Trip to Salem, MA

Must Do’s on Your Next Trip to Salem, MA

If you’re like me, then you’re likely going stir crazy from isolation and are using the time (lots, and lots of time) to plan your next vacation for when the world returns to normal. I have the pleasure of living in a vacation destination. Well, at least in the month of October it’s a vacation destination. I know that most visitors to Salem, MA are coming for the Halloween ambiance and everything Witch Trials. But as someone who lives in Salem, I can tell you there are way more things to do outside of ghosts and learning about the perils of mass hysteria. So the next time you’re in Salem, stop by one of my favorite places.

Goodnight Fatty

Think cookie speakeasy. Goodnight Fatty literally started out in a hidden, or at least very hard to find, popup located in the alleyway behind Rockafella’s restaurant. Tourists are not their target market because they have such a huge local following, but I highly recommend giving them a visit. I’m not even going to attempt to explain how they make their cookies, whatever is in them is highly addictive and delicious (and completely legal). But I will say that they make 3 secret cookie flavors each weekend (Fridays and Saturdays) that are never disappointing and keep me going back weekend after weekend. And when I say secret, I mean they don’t reveal what the cookies will be. It’s a complete surprise when you walk in and look in their cookie case from the Caramel Macchiato Fatty to my personal favorite, the Fruity Pebbles Fatty.

Seriously, I would do anything for those cookies, and I think my friends would really like me shut up about the joy Fruity Pebbles cookies bring to my life. They’ve recently relocated and are a bit easier to find at the Carriage House across from the Salem Common. Check them out in person or at their website and Instagram.

The Salem Willows

The Salem Willows are a nostalgic place for a lot of people. It’s a park, an arcade, a beach and pier, a concert and festival grounds, and a great place to grab a quick bite to eat. But for someone visiting Salem on vacation, it might not be on the to-do list because it’s a bit off the beaten path. Unless you’re up for a half hour plus walk from the Salem Common/Essex Street area to the Willows, you’ll likely want to drive the five minutes.

Aside from having breathtaking views, the Willows has one of my favorite places to grab a snack, E.W. Hobbs. Hobbs’ popcorn is pretty legendary in Salem, so much so that it can be bought in trash bags. Seriously, giant bags of popcorn. If you have the time and the transportation, I highly recommend putting the Willows on your agenda when visiting Salem.

The Ropes Mansion Garden

You’re likely aware of the Rope Mansion as Allison’s house in the movie Hocus Pocus, but IRL the Ropes Mansion is a historical home built in the 1700’s. The house is open to visitors for self-guided tours, and while it doesn’t look like the inside of Allison’s house from the movie, and it was updated in the 1800’s so it now has a Victorian interior, rather than colonial, it’s free! To be honest, the house isn’t really my thing, but the garden behind it most certainly is.

The garden is located behind the mansion and is also free and open to the public. Generally, the garden starts coming to life in late spring, because nothing grows in our early cold New England spring, and by mid-summer it’s at the peak. Depending on when you visit, the garden may be sparse, but you’ll still be able to say hi to the goldfish in the pond who are there year-round. In my personal opinion, the garden is beautiful no matter what time of year you visit, and good for a tranquil stroll, a lounge on a bench with a book or a bite to eat, and one of the best places in Salem for a photo shoot. This should be an easy destination to add on to your visit, as it’s located right on Essex Street, just past the Witch House.

Salem Food Truck Festival

Who doesn’t love a food truck? Now imagine an entire park filled with food trucks lined up one after the other to sell you delicious foods. It’s heaven. And every September food trucks descend on the Salem Common for the Salem Food Truck festival. This is one of my favorite events held in Salem because of its laid-back atmosphere that brings out all the locals…and their adorable dogs. Seriously, Salem is a dog city, and everyone brings their dog to this festival. The variety of trucks is also a bonus, there is no shortage of sweet, savory, and everything in between trucks.

The festival is generally held the last weekend in September just before the October/Halloween crowd takes over. If you plan your visit just right and make it here before it becomes full-blown tourist season, you may be able to partake in the Food Truck Festival. You won’t regret it!

Tavern on the Green at the Hawthorne Hotel

My absolute favorite restaurant is kind of a hidden gem, even though most visitors to Salem will pass right by it at some point during their trip. The Tavern on the Green is located in the Hawthorne Hotel, and even in the midst of October, it never seems to be overwhelmed by tourists. It may be because it’s a bit inconspicuous located within the hotel, but I assure you it’s there, open to the public, and very worth a visit.

I’m not sure what I love more, the cozy tavern vibe The Tavern on the Green has going, or the menu’s creative spin on pub food that never disappoints me. Considering that it’s located within the Hawthorne and adjacent to the Salem Common, it’s very reasonably priced. So if you happen by the Hawthorne and need a bite to eat, give it a try!

Jolie Tea Company

People seem to come to Salem for ghosts, witchcraft, and… tea. Really, it seems like everyone knows about the Jolie Tea Company, and I’m only slightly mad about it. I love that their business is booming, because they are wonderful and deserve it! But I would love it if it weren’t so hard to get a reservation. If you enjoy tea, macarons, or if you’ve ever wondered what high tea with the queen would be like, you need to stop by the Jolie Tea Company.

I absolutely love the Jolie Tea Company’s teas, which is essentially an endless selection, and I’m a big fan of their High Tea and would recommend the experience to anyone. If you don’t want to partake in one of their tea experiences, or just can’t get reservations (I feel your pain!), the store is open to purchase tea and an array of sweet treats, so stop in and support a wonderful local business!

Caramel French Patisserie

If you’ve ever been to France, then you know that real French pastries ruin all other pastries for you forever. When I got home from a trip to France, I searched everywhere for a decent croissant with no avail, and then Caramel opened and I lost my mind. I have wasted far too much money and consumed far too many calories on these pasties, but they are 100% worth it. You can find me on most Sunday mornings in Spring at the Ropes Mansion garden, on my favorite bench by the pond, eating a pan au chocolat.

Not only are Caramel’s pastries masterfully crafted, but the space itself is so charming and authentic, it makes me think of all the wonderful boulangeries and patisseries I visited in France. Luckily, Caramel is conveniently located on Essex and you’ll likely pass right by it when in downtown Salem.

Honorable Mention: Back Alley Bacon

Back Alley Bacon is an experience, to say the least. They’re literally located in a back alley, and every Wednesday, when the red lantern is lit, they serve a secret pork-based meal (sometimes given to you by a man in a pig mask). While this is a unique style of dining that everyone should experience, because they are only open one night a week it can be hard to get your hands on, even as a local. But if you’re in Salem on a Wednesday night, stroll down that alley and give them a try!

You never really know how much you miss your favorite places, until you can’t visit them. I’m certainly itching to grab a cookie or tea, and sit on my favorite bench, but for the time being I’ll entertain myself with planning all things I’ll do once we can get back out into the world. I hope you’re doing the same, and that maybe one of those places you’re planning to travel to is Salem. So plan away! And put one of these on your to do list. Be sure to let me know what you think!

Stay safe.

❤ Kayti

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Things I Wish I’d Known Before Getting Pregnant

Things I Wish I’d Known Before Getting Pregnant

There are things I thought about before getting pregnant, and things I didn’t think I had to think about. One of those things I didn’t think about is the random pains that come with pregnancy. I thought about eventual back pain as pregnancy progressed, and of course contractions when the time came, but I had no idea how many random aches and pains I’d have.

Que me typing in my symptoms on WebMD thinking my appendix is going to burst. Nope, just round ligament pain. I’ve never heard of round ligaments before, but I now know they need to stretch out as the uterus grows, and in the process cause sharp, jabbing pains in the lower abdomen.

Really, the round ligament pains were nothing in comparison to the next pain that slowly started developing. A sore pelvis, almost like I’d bruised it. Except that instead of fading away over time, it’s slowly gotten worse. Separating my legs started getting more and more difficult. It hurt to flip over in bed. Walking was even tough. So, I finally looked up all these bizarre symptoms and came up with Pelvic Girdle Pain.

Essentially, the joints in the pelvis are moving unevenly, causing pain during pretty much everything. I swung my legs out of bed the other morning and thought I might pass out. Also, I’m not able to stand on one leg to put socks or pants on without feeling like dying…. So, there’s that. I’ll give you an update when I figure out what to do about it.

I assumed I had quite a while before the pregnancy belly popped. Maybe 19 or 20 weeks until my clothes stopped fitting right and I had start thinking about maternity clothes. I’ve heard stories of friends of friends who didn’t show until they were 5 months.

I’ve since learned, I’m not one of those people. I woke up at the end of 14 weeks and couldn’t button my pants. And this wasn’t the “I ate too many bagels yesterday” belly bloat, this was a hard, could not be sucked in belly. It was so bad that I had to rush out and buy a belly band because it seemed inappropriate to go to work with my pants unbuttoned.

My coworker taught me the ultra-effective hair elastic looped around your pants button trick for extra protection under the Belly Band, which has extended the time I was able to wear pants. But as well as the Belly Band and the hair elastic worked, the comfort level was lacking. So, here I am, week 17, waiting for my first order of maternity dresses because I plan to spend the rest of my pregnancy in dresses and leggings.

I’m generally someone who’s good at planning and likes to be fully prepared before anything, especially life-changing events. I generally do lots of research; reading, watching videos, asking friends and family, but I completely dropped the ball on this one.

My previous work covered medical and maternity leaves. I never had to use it, but plenty of my co-workers had, so I knew it covered 12 weeks of maternity leave (by covered I mean you got about 85% of what your weekly pay was). I now know that is a pretty sweet benefit, because a lot of places do not cover maternity leave.

The maternity leave options at my current institution are not as sweet. I can use FMLA (the Family Medical Leave Act), which secures my job for 12 weeks, but in order to be paid I need to use my own time – using all sick, vacation, and personal time that I’ve accrued. And when that runs out, going off payroll. Luckily, I have enough time accrued to cover most of my leave.

I also learned that there is the possibility to buy private short-term disability coverage that can be used during maternity leave. Unfortunately, it will not cover preexisting conditions for the first 12 months. So, a 9-month pregnancy that you’re already 4-months into won’t be covered. If I’d done my research earlier, I’d probably have been more prepared, but lesson learned for the next baby.

I’m not someone who enjoys being the center of attention, and I generally keep personal details, well, personal. I knew it would be difficult telling my bosses and coworkers I was expecting, but I had no idea how awkward and anxiety inducing it would be telling even family and friends.

You never know how people are going to take the news, whether they’ll be happy, or weird about it (my 9-year-old niece cried for a good 30 minutes). The onslaught of questions that come after announcing can be painful and emotionally draining. And everyone has an opinion or a personal story to share.

I also had a lot of anxiety over when to tell people, and if I was telling people too soon. Even at 15 weeks along, I was terrified I was telling people too early. I didn’t have much of a choice, because it had stopped looking like I’d eaten a bag of bagels, and more like a baby bump.

It’s been nice sharing the experience with everyone, and I appreciate all the love and advice and assurance everyone has been giving. But there is a part of me that wished I could have just waited until the baby was born and then told everyone.

I’ve always had this idea that morning sickness, happened in the morning. Much to my surprise, that idea is a so wrong. In fact, I felt fine in the mornings during my first trimester. It was around 11am that I’d start feeling awful.

I know I’m lucky I was never nauseas to the point of being physically sick (to all the mamas out there who are experiencing this, or have experienced, my sincerest apologies). But it still wasn’t enjoyable, and I had no idea what was going on because, again, I assumed morning sickness was in the morning. Finally, I googled why I was so queasy and found out that the term ‘morning’ is used very loosely. Morning sickness can happen anytime of day, and in some cases, it can last all day.

And the only way to appease my all-day-queasies at work was to graze on snacks. Mainly carbs – pretzels, crackers, chips, cereal. There was so much snacking going on that I gained 15 pounds. Even though I discovered it was morning sickness late, like 15 pounds late, I also discovered a bunch of tricks and remedies to help, like ginger anything and vitamin B6, which were both life savers.  

As a young adult, I had a part time job at a baby store, and I always thought how fun it would be to make a registry. Couples walking around together, picking out their baby’s furniture, and playthings, and clothes. Fast forward to now, I’m starting a registry and it’s honestly bananas.

There are so many items to choose from, and so many decisions to be made. Like do we want a rocker or a glider, or do we even need one at all? Do we invest in a crib that converts into a toddler bed, then into a full bed like some sort of freaking transformer? And don’t get me started on all the different types of bottles.

I’ve only been able to spend short amounts of time registering because it’s so overwhelming. And most of the items on my registry are the same thing, but different brands and styles. Like 5 travel systems, all claiming to be the best and most efficient. Internet shopping is lovely, couldn’t live without it, but I’m really wishing the days of baby stores and registering with one of those cool scanners was still a thing.

I don’t know what I thought the timeline was for finding out the sex of the baby before I was pregnant. I can’t remember if I thought it was sooner, or if I just thought 20 weeks was quicker than it really is. Either way, it has felt like an eternity waiting to get to my 20-week ultrasound to find out what I’m having.

And I am finding out what I’m having. Some people have tried to talk me in to waiting until birth to find out the gender. But that’s not my cup of tea. As I said before, I’m a planner. I need to know all the details, and not knowing what I am having has been driving me insane – there is no way I could make it until July without knowing.

Remember earlier when I said that once you announce you’re expecting, everyone has an opinion? This is probably the biggest one, and the one that annoys me the most. I’ve already had people telling me it’s a boy. “I’m calling it a ‘he’ already” one said. But if anyone should have a sixth sense about the gender, it should be me, right? Leaving me wanting to know even soon what I’m having and wondering why people can’t keep their opinions to themselves.

I thought I did enough reading and research, and talked to enough people, to prepare myself. In hindsight I could have done more, but there still would have been surprises, because every pregnancy is going to be different. If you’re a mom to be, let me know what surprises you’ve come across in your pregnancy. And if you’re already a mom, and you’ve experienced these things, please let me know what else I should be expecting.

❤ Kayti

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10 Things I Love to do in Disney. And you will too!

10 Things I Love to do in Disney. And you will too!

As the doldrums of Winter set in, and I get more desperate for a warm getaway, I’ve been reading a lot of posts and articles about Disney. To my amazement, many of them have been kind of downers. “Avoid this”, “Don’t go here”, “I wish I hadn’t done that”. Please, don’t listen to these posts. The truth is, there is no perfect, one-size fits all way to do Disney!

What’s right for one traveler may not be right for you. But what I can say, as someone who’s gone to Disney more times than years under her belt (FYI, I’m 32), is try anything and everything your heart desires. If you don’t enjoy it, well, at least you tried, and you won’t do it again next trip! Here are some of the things that I’ve tried over the years and now do every time I vacation at Disney.

1. Staying on Disney Property:

As a kid my trips to Disney World never included staying on Disney property at a resort. We’d stay in Orlando or Kissimmee, and we’d drive to the parks each morning. I still remember waking up at the crack of dawn to secure close parking – don’t let the word close fool you, we still needed to take a tram from the parking lot to get to the park entrance. Or in the case of Magic Kingdom, a tram to the boat or monorail. Two forms of transportation before that beautiful castle comes into eye shot.

In the mornings, you’re too jacked up on excitement to register hopping from one form of transportation to the next. It’s at night, when you’ve walked miles around the park, run yourself ragged on rides, and eaten every turkey leg/Dole whip/Mickey-eared treat you can get your hands on, that your journey back to the hotel becomes a tortuous, never-ending, marathon. Que a flashback of teenage me laying on the floor of the boat from Magic Kingdom not caring how many feet had clomped across it.

So when my husband and I decided to honeymoon in Disney World, my one request was to stay on Disney property. Best decision I’ve ever made (Well, aside from marrying him). A handful of Disney trips later, we’ve never looked back! There are no bad resorts, and I whole-heartedly believe there is a resort that fits everyone. We’ve tried a few – Caribbean Beach, Saratoga Springs, Boardwalk, with the goal always being that we’d try them all. But we’ve fallen in love with the Animal Kingdom Lodge, and I don’t know as we’ll ever stay anywhere else.

We’re animal lovers, we love the grounds, and views of the savanna, and enjoy having Animal Kingdom as our closest park. This might not be your cup of tea, but that’s what’s great about the variety of Disney resorts – there’s one that will fit your wants and needs! Whether it’s a particular park that you want to be close to, a theme you’re looking for, or a price range you want to stay in, there’s a resort for you.

My suggestion is: make a quick list of your resort must-haves, and then do some research to see which resort best fits you. Disney’s site now has a great compare function that lets you select up to 3 resorts to see how they stack up against each other.

 2. Food + Wine Festival:

The hubs and I generally planned our trips in the late Spring and Summer, and after our trips we’d get the “Come back soon” emails, tempting us to return with discounts and a line-up of what was coming up next at Disney, one of those things always being the Food and Wine festival. Now, one of my dirty secrets is that I am not a foodie. In fact, one might even say I’m picky. I’ve come a long way since my days of living on chocolate milk and mac’n cheese, but my palette is still pretty basic.

So I was hesitant when my husband suggested we plan a trip to Disney during the Food and Wine festival. Wine, I can do, but am I really going to try any of this food? I thought as I looked over the selections. Two Food and Wine trips later, I can say hands down, one of my favorite events at Disney World. I’ve never been so adventurous with food before, and I’ve started liking foods that I never imagined I’d like. I have dreams about Canada’s cheddar cheese and bacon soup, and I don’t even eat soup! (Don’t ask, it’s some sort of aversion to liquid food)

 If you’re a food lover, and you haven’t been yet, you’re missing out! And if you’re a food non(?) lover, such as myself, give it a go. You won’t regret the food you try, even if you don’t end up liking it. There were several dishes I took one bite of and told my husband he’d need to finish it on his own. But you will surprise yourself with how many dishes you enjoy. The great thing about the festival is the variety of food that range from fun twists on basics (I’m looking at you loaded mac’n cheese with pepper bacon, cheddar, and leeks), to the exotic. And the small size of each plate is perfect for someone who never tries new things because they worry they’ll waste it by throwing it in the trash (bashfully raises hand).

If you’re still unsure about whether the Food and Wine festival is for you, I suggest planning your next trip during a period that coincides with the festival. It runs from the end of August until November, great months for a visit, that way the festival will be going on, but you’re not planning your entire trip around it.

3. Days Off:

Days off? What do you mean, I came to do the parks all day, every day! You may be saying, but believe me, there are so many perks to taking a day or two off during your trip. I too used to be an all-out park goer; every day was a park day. Until I noticed this magical voucher for mini golf in my trip package. When would we possibly have time for mini golf, when we’re at the park all day? Our solution was to plan a day off.

No parks, sleeping in – and by sleeping in I mean not waking up at 6:00am, and just a day of rest. It was probably one of the best vacation decisions we’ve made yet. We loved it so much, we now plan 2 days off. One of the days is a more active day, mini golf, shopping at Disney Springs, a meal at a different resort than the one we’re staying at. The other day off is pure leisure; wake when we want, walk the resort grounds, lounge by the pool, eat at the sit-down restaurant on site, and early to bed.

When we first planned a day off, I thought I’d go crazy, that I’d be so anxious to be at a park that I wouldn’t enjoy the day, but it’s been a life saver. Maybe it’s that I’m getting older, but I was finding after a few days in a row at the parks, I was burnt out. There is so much physical and emotional energy that goes into a day at the park, it can start to wear on you. The day (or days) off are rejuvenating. It’s a way to re-energize and prepare yourself for another couple of days at the parks refreshed, as if you’ve just started your vacation.

Give it a try, for your next trip, schedule in a day off smack dab in the middle of your vacation. It’s a great way to break up the parks, do some exploring, and make your vacation feel extended. Your feet will be thanking me!

4. Getting to the Parks Early:

I’m not necessarily a ‘morning person’. I wake up early for work, and on the weekends I try to get myself out of bed by 9am, but functioning first thing is not my specialty. However, there is something magical about a Disney park first thing in the morning. It’s pristine, it’s quiet, it just feels very intimate. Don’t get me wrong, there are still a lot of people entering the park with you, but far less than you’d expect, and it’s easy to spread out and not get stuck in a crowd. There are far more people who trickle into the parks throughout the day, so to get in early and on rides before the park really fills up is a big perk of getting there early.

We even take advantage of the morning Extra Magic Hours, a perk of staying at a Disney resort, which get you into the park a whole hour earlier. Another benefit of getting to the park early, is leaving whenever you want and not feeling guilty. When my husband and I first started vacationing in Disney, we would be at the park from open until close. Rope drop to fireworks, as they say. Which was fun, but also quite exhausting. We’ve since mellowed out, and we’re okay with getting to the park before it opens, doing everything we want to do, and then leaving when we want, even if that’s 5pm.

If you’re staying at a Disney resort, there are so many things to enjoy once you get back. A nice dip in the pool, or lounging in a hot tub, or even just enjoying your room, before getting ready for the next day. Take advantage of early mornings at the parks, and relaxing evenings at the resort, you’ll be glad you did.

5. A Sit-Down Meal a Day:

I know lots of people who feel sitting down for a meal while you’re at the parks is a waste of time, but I think otherwise. I feel it’s one of the best ways to take a breather from the hectic park atmosphere and take an hour to regather yourself while enjoying some delicious grub. This suggestion may not be for you if you’re going to Disney World on a budget and not getting a dining plan (which I highly recommend you do).

If, on the other hand, you have a decent budget set aside for meals, or you’re on the dining plan, take the time to do a sit-down meal a day. It’s worth it! My husband and I have tried the majority of restaurants at the parks, a good portion at Disney Springs, and we’re starting to make a dent in the ones at the resorts. We have our favorites, but we also make an effort to try a few new ones every time we visit, and we’re never disappointed.

Sitting down for lunch or an early dinner in the parks always helps us with what’s next, whether that’s grabbing a fast pass for our next ride, deciding where to do some shopping, or planning which shows to see and when. We also love doing sit-down meals on our days off and it’s been a great way to explore other resorts (I’ll talk about that more later). If you think a sit-down meal a day is for you, you’ll need to do some work. It’s not difficult to get good reservations, but it takes patience and persistence – especially if you’re like me and you plan down to the second.

Some reservations are easy to come by, but for the more difficult ones (cough, ‘Ohana, cough, Le Cellier). I recommend doing a reservation search once or twice a day, and you may need to do that right up until your trip. For our most recent trip in September, I searched every day and finally scored the perfect ‘Ohana dinner reservations the week before we left. And in all my trips, I’ve never not gotten a reservation I was looking for. So if you’re having a hard time, don’t get discouraged, keep trying, it’ll work out.

6. Waiting in Lines:

I know, this one sounds crazy, but hear me out. We utilize the heck out of Disney’s FastPass+ system, to the point where I’ve gained the nickname “the FastPass Master”, and I’ve been known to coach others in the park on how to make the most of the system. After we use out initial 3 FastPasses, I hop on my phone, pop open the My Disney Experience app, and find our next FastPass+. I have so much success with getting us FastPasses for whatever our next thing is, that there is usually just enough time to walk across the park to the ride before it starts.

And I highly recommend that you do your research and perfect this technique so you can make the most out of your time in the parks and get to everything on your wish list. The lines can be long, like really, really long. If you don’t have a FastPass+ for rides like Seven Dwarfs Mine ride, Avatar Flight of Passage, or Soarin’, you’re going to be waiting around for an astronomical amount of time. It doesn’t have to be this way though! When you’ve gotten the hand of the FastPass+ system sometimes waiting in a line can actually be enjoyable.

Still not sold yet? Okay, so here is a great example of why we enjoy an occasional wait in line. As I said early, the hubs and I get to the parks early, so on a typical Magic Kingdom day we’re usually up and moving at 6:30am. We grab a coffee at Starbucks at the Main Street Bakery, climb the Swiss Family Robinson Treehouse, do a round on the Jungle Cruise, take a splash on the Pirates of the Caribbean, sit in on the Enchanted Tiki Room show, and then hit our first FastPass+ on Big Thunder Mountain Railroad. By noon when we sit down for lunch, we’ve usually hit all the major rides and walked the entire park, but the day is still young, and there’s still plenty to do, but we can turn it down a few notches. (Even though I prep myself in advance with months on the treadmill, my legs are usually screaming at this point).

That’s why a strategic wait in line can be just the thing we need. So we hop on our phones and check the wait times, and generally, if Space Mountain is under a 60 minute wait, we head on over and park ourselves in a nice, dark, air conditioned line. I don’t recommend choosing a ride that’s line is primarily outside for this, like Seven Dwarfs Mine ride, Haunted Mansion, or even Splash Mount – although you at least get a nice cool splash at the end. Space Mountain and Pirates of the Caribbean are our go-to lines at Magic Kingdom. The next time you’re hot, tired, but still really want to keep going at the park, try this trick out.

7. PhotoPass:

On top of not being a foodie, my second dirty secret is I’m no photographer. In fact, I kind of suck at taking pictures. So much so that I’ve made it a habit to not take photos. Most of my vacations go undocumented, or I have a few out-of-focus, “what the hell is that?” type pics to show off at the end. On the second to last day of our honeymoon, the hubs and I went on Splash Mountain, we were in the front, so the picture was the two of us, holding hands and screaming as we dropped to our not-so-doom. Just adorable, a wonderful memento to commemorate our honeymoon.

And we went to buy our photo, and the lovely women at the counter explained to us that if we were going to all the parks and riding the rides we should purchase Memory Maker, and we’d get every picture taken when we went on rides, and we’d have access to all the photographers around Disney. If only we’d known sooner, I’d probably have a bunch of wonderful honeymoon pictures to show you… but I don’t. Since then, I have purchased Memory Maker for every Disney trip I take, and I have an abundance of great pictures! Not just rides, pictures from wonderful location in the parks, in Disney Springs, even inside the photo study that’s located in the Springs.

I still like to take some blurry pictures that I can’t identify after the trip, but at least I have beautiful, professional pictures to also remember each trip by. Memory Maker is $169 if you buy it 3 days before your vacation, and $199 for non-advance purchases. Well worth the price of some great photos to remember your trip by, I think.

8. Resort Hopping:

Resort hopping has become one of our favorite Disney activities. It started when we first stayed on Disney property at the Caribbean Beach resort and wanted to scout out our next potential resort. Even now that we’re addicted to the Animal Kingdom Lodge, and never staying anywhere else (my husband still hasn’t realized this yet), we still plan trips to other resorts to see what they’re like.

I touched on this a little bit in the sit-down meals section, but one of the best ways to see the other resorts is by eating at their restaurants. We’re frequent eaters at ‘Ohana, and love to get to the Polynesian Village resort early, even just to have a drink in the lobby or look out across the water at Magic Kingdom. It’s nice just changing up the atmosphere.

The Torch Lighting Ceremony at the Polynesian Village Resort

If you’re not interested in a dining experience, you can still visit a resort! There are plenty of other things to do besides eat, like picking up souvenirs in the gift shop, walking the grounds, or pampering yourself at one of the salons and spas (although you won’t be able to use the resort’s pool or fitness center). It’s a fun way to see which resort you’re going to stay at next!

9. Splurging on Behind the Scenes Experiences:

If you’ve ever been on Living with the Land at Epcot, and halfway through the greenhouse you notice a group of people, not in a boat, examining the lovely growing vegetable. That’s the Behind the Seed tour, and someday I will convince my husband that we need to go on that tour. It’s one of the many Behind the Scenes offered in the Disney Parks. You may have also seen some brave individuals, all harnessed, crossing that rickety bridge over the crocodiles on Kilimanjaro Safari, or divers in the big tank at Epcot Sea Adventures, those are also Behind the Scenes tours.

Each park offers their own tours and behind the scenes experiences, and they are worth every penny! This latest Disney trip we decided to go on the Caring for Giants tour, which was the highlight of our vacation. Surprisingly, we were the only ones who showed up and were treated to our own private tour. While it’s not a hands-on experience, it gets you much closer to the elephants than the safari does, and you get to talk with a keeper and a representative from Africa, who can speak to the conservation efforts that Disney is helping with.

Caring for Giants – Behind the Scenes Tour: Nadirah ❤

The tour itself is $30 a person, but really, it was priceless. Both the keeper and representative were so passionate about the elephants, and loved telling us about each individual, their names, their quirks, who their favorite was. I would absolutely go on this tour again, and because elephants are living creatures with minds of their own, every tour is different.

These experiences book up quickly, so if you’re thinking about doing one, I recommend calling to find out what availability there is. Many of these tours have a limited number of seats, and rarely have cancellations. Up Close with Rhinos at Animal Kingdom is a great example of this, I have never been able to score a reservation no matter how hard I’ve tried (someday though!).

10. Trying New Things:

This is going to seem very meta in a blog post about what things we’ve tried and ended up loving, but one of the things we love… is trying new things. I don’t tend to stray from my usual routine in day to day life, but something about being in Disney World makes me feel like a kid again, and I want to try everything. I want to try the foods, I want to try the rides, I want to try all the experiences and shows. And I’ve never regretted anything I’ve tried, even though there are some things that I won’t do again (sorry, Mission Space, you’re not for me).

The next time you find yourself in Disney World, do me a favor, forget everything you’ve read about what to do and what not to do, and just try everything. Be adventurous. Be spontaneous. I promise you won’t regret the memories you make.

You’ve heard all about the things that I love doing while vacationing in Disney, but don’t just listen to my advice. Go and experience it for yourself! (And, no, I’m not getting paid by the mouse to say that, though I’d love to be on his payroll.) And when you get back, let me know what you tried and loved! And things you tried and wouldn’t do again!

❤ Kayti

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